Wednesday, 5 June 2013

Heartbreak Recovery: Day 1

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If you have read my blog recently you will know that I was DUMPED. :(

*cue* "Aaaaall by myyyyseeeeelllff"

As I am one of those people who likes to be productive and focus on other things and people, I thought I would show all you lovely people how I am getting over this little *situation* and it might provide some inspiration for anyone else in a similar *situation*.

Part one will not be that helpful, just shows you my mentality really! Eeek.

Day One.

The deed was done by 6am. (By text, just sayin') 

In an emotional state, I stumble around the house, feed the cat and dog, break into my car and drive home to my Mum's.

Can't get in the front door. Chain is on. Try to break into the back door whilst parents are looking out the front door. Turns out back door was open all along. 

Fall into Mum's arms. Have big hugs.

Lay on the kitchen floor for 20 minutes with Bob the dog. Allow him to give me kisses.

Rant to Mum about life.

In my angry state, remove the photos of him from around my mirror. Go to throw them in the bin. Wonder if I will regret it. Put them all in the box of memories that I have. I can deal with that when I feel stronger.

Have a shower. Go back to the house. Get ready for work, text the girls.

Get to work early. Moan to my manager. Get bundled with hugs and kisses from my girls. (I love you all.)

Work my arse off all day. Wonder if I am radiating *single* fumes as the old men keep flirting. Eeew.

Leave work. Have a friend to stay in the spare room as I don't want to be alone. Order Domino's.

Check Facebook. See that he has changed his relationship status and removed the nice things about me in his "About Me" area are deleted.

Shock hits me. For the first time all day, I cry big time.

Eat lots of Domino's. Drink a lot of beer.


Keep an eye out for Part 2 of my Heartbreak Recovery series!

It must have been love,
But it's over now.


  1. Sorry to hear about your situation. In my experience of break ups it's best to keep busy. Go out with your friends and have fun. The best thing I ever did was delete my ex from Facebook. Out of sight out of mind. X

    1. Honestly, I never realised how important your friends are until things like this happen! x


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